You see it twice
Think about when you visit a seamstress with an aim of getting yourself a new outfit done. What do you do? You either go to her with a pre-determined design in your mind, or with one already in your hand or on your phone. Why? Because there is no way she will be able to come up with an outfit for you without a design to follow.
And so it is with life.
The only way you will ever be able to create the life you want is if you first see it in your mind. You cannot produce what you don't see. You cannot create something you have no idea about. You have to create it first in your mind before you replicate it in real life. Think about it. Anything you ever did and succeeded in doing first started in your mind then it became a reality. If it was getting married to your spouse, you must have thought about this happening before you approached her, and she must have thought about being your wife before accepting your proposal. What about the house you are building? Did you just wake up and start building it? No. You went through the process of imagining the kind of house you wanted, then you went to get the right design from your architect.
So what makes you think you can live your life blindly, without first having a preview?
If you want to be succcessful in any area of your life then you you must realize this very important thing:
Yes, "You see it first in your mind before you see it with your eyes.
What you don't see in your mind you will never behold with your eyes.
Be Ignited. Be Inspired. Be Influenced. Become the best version of yourself you can ever be.